For Men

tantra for men

Tantra For Men

Tantra for men helps tap into sexual energy. Sexual energy is your life force energy. Empower your life through connecting more deeply with your sexual spiritual self. Understand how staying present and dealing with the challenges of life, love and relating will support you to reclaim your masculine power and increase the potency of your whole life.

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I just wanted to thank you for the 'Being a Sexual Man' workshop. Awareness gives you the power to change. I have already felt a great sense of awareness which I believe will help me to recognise, focus and embrace my sexual energy, my ability to freely give love and my openess in receiving love. Thank you so much again.

Sebastian, 47, Sydney

Thank you so much for the workshop. After a very long time of feeling closed emotionally and “in my head”, I speak the truth when I see and now feel with an open heart that I am on a journey to authentic sharing. I found your “speak” and use of analogies enlightening thus allowing myself to put pieces of repressed emotional and sexual energy together. The education you gave relating to a man and a woman’s polarity and how they come together has now allowed me to bond on a more spiritual level with the beginnings of an open heart ready to receive the love of my partner/lover. I can’t thank you enough and I look forward to attending more workshops and also Tantric Nights.

Mal, 47, Melbourne

This event helped me to unravel the 'mystery' around why I was letting myself be treated the same way in my relationships with women. It was confronting at first, but then I was able to see the path that I needed to move on. An unbiased and loving woman's perspective was what I valued more than any other program I'd participated in before. I've learnt so much from Martina and invite you to attend and see for yourself.


Being Man Retreat was amazing, powerful, profound and enjoyable. I loved everybody who was involved and felt very much engaged over the weekend. I didn’t know what to expect, though I knew I wanted and needed to face the energy overwhelming me and all that meant, especially in regard to sexuality and relationships. I can't explain how much more grounded and comfortable I feel with myself. I came away in touch with the richness of the experience. Reflecting that I hadn’t been able to release the energy I had been wanting to let go of, which I experience as sexual and healing energy. Then on Sunday night something moved and it came up in particular to heart space - to open up an area of pain and hurt which was the release I had sought. It feels like there is a lot of integration going on at the moment. I will continue with the practices, go back to yoga to continue the expansion and grounding that has helped and magnified over the weekend, and continue the journey to adulthood with aliveness. 

I have been to many events facilitated by Martina and never cease to be impressed by her capacity to be rational yet intuitive, penetratingly forensic yet warmly feminine. 'Being a Sexual Man' was no exception. A bunch of us men, with many different yet somehow similar issues to work through, were inspired and challenged as we worked through a series of emotional and physical exercises with Martina. As a result, I feel better equipped to rejoice in, and celebrate, my essential masculinity. Thank you Martina! All good blessings.

David, 43, Melbourne

I wanted to take this time to thank you for the amazing influence and inspiration you have had on my life to get me to this stage where I can commence a new life of service. You were my first introduction to tantra. I have so much gratitude for your presence in my life. Your presence, the space you hold, your wonderful shining heart and your professional integrity are such gifts to the world.

Sean, 41, Melbourne

Love this work Martina. The Being Man retreat I attended a few years ago was absolutely brilliant and profound, such a well thought out program that covered so many aspects of "Being Man" through all ages and stages of a man's life. Can't speak highly enough of your integrity and passion for this life-changing work,, and the feminine reflection of man on these weekend is so crucial.

Eamonn, 38, Melbourne

Thanks for the workshop today... It was interesting, challenging, appealing, useful... love your work :)

Darren, 48, Melbourne


tantra for men

Being Man Retreat

Whether you’re single, happy in your relationship or unhappy in your relationship… This retreat will help you to understand women and to be able to connect more effectively, bringing out your best qualities and guiding you towards loving, heartfelt relationships.

Whether you’re tall or short, brawny or skinny… Being masculine is about what happens on the inside. The more authentic a man is, the more attractive he becomes to women. Women desire a man who is connected to himself, allowing her to feel safe to surrender and let go into her deepest feminine essence.

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Never before have I struggled so much with a testimonial; there are no words to accurately describe Martina Hughes or the Being Man retreat. Martina is quite simply amazing. She plays the game (of life) as a Grand Master with the subtlety of butterfly kisses and the power of hurricanes. She is woman! Hear her roar! Ably assisted by a team of angels and surrogate father figure and Qi Gong practitioner par excellence Jared, and using little more than touch, breath, movement and visualisations. I was cocooned in love to safely explore the scariest of places, my heart. I had no idea I could experience so much pleasure with my clothes on!

Andrew, 55, Melbourne

I read your email and all of this fire just tingles through me. :-) I LOVED the retreat. It was amazing to spend time with so many amazing people who all share a love of the divine. To be open to you and the other woman was the most beautiful and sensual experience that I have ever had. Thank you again for being a fearless, deep, tender, sensitive, open, loving woman and for allowing me to see who I am in that. I love the space inside of me so much. 

Colin, 37, Sydney

The primal quality of the practices created a feeling of going into the men’s cave. It was awesome to be in such a wonderful group of guys where you could witness their masculinity and in return experience your own masculinity. It was inspiring the different life experiences which everyone brought to the group and the feeling of connection with the whole group. It was an experience I have grown from and I am able to keep reconnecting with that energy since the course.

Greg, 39, Sydney

I had done over a decade of self development work before I attended the Being Man retreat, where I experienced some of the biggest shifts in my life in relating with myself, my sexuality and women.... I wouldn't only recommend this to men, I'd suggest it's a must go! This work has been key in relating with all women in my life including mum and sisters and positively impacted on all areas of my life.

Paul, 45, Byron

Thank you for a wonderful retreat. The course was professionally organized, well structured and ran well. The food was delicious and nutritious and I felt well satisfied with the servings. Speaking from my heart ... You opened up my eyes to see how I was connecting with both men and women. My masculine man was dormant and has now re-awakened. I feel so energized as a sexual masculine man again. I'm finding it easier to stay centred, and to feel grounded in my unique male energy. I felt that my body and mind was cleansed and allowed to start fresh again. The workshops with the women and how to read their bodies and to allow space, was very insightful and powerful and has already been put into positive practice. Thank you for creating the space for a group of courageous men to challenge life and grow.

Damian, 52, Melbourne

"It's amazing what gets squeezed into 3 nights n 3 days - feels more like a weeks worth of personal transformation. You'll be up for a ride..peaks..troughs but it's all carefully structured to make sure you arrive at the end empowered n clear on what you need to do to take your next step n eat life like a lion. Along the way there's a few utterly unique experiences you can't get anywhere else. An added bonus is the special connection you make with your fellow travellers. If you're thinking of doing this - do it! You deserve to back yourself brother." 

Dorian, 47, Melbourne

I must admit that I was a little hesitant in signing up for the Being Man retreat as I thought I would feel intimidated by the presence of so many men. How wrong I was and how grateful I am that I took the plunge and said 'yes' to attend the workshop. I have done a number of self development practices but nothing, I repeat nothing, has had such a positive effect on me. The sessions were amazing, the facilitators brilliant, the other participants were awesome and the results are staggering. I feel like a new man. I feel powerful, in touch with my self, grounded and have a much better understanding of women and myself. I learnt so much from the other participants, I was challenged and faced many things that have been holding me back. I wish I had taken a photo of myself before the course and then one now. My partner said when I walked in the door after the course, wow, you look taller and younger and you 'feel' different!! Guys, I am 58 and have done a lot of things in my life, like many I have struggled in relationships and with myself. At times (many) I have felt tired, lost, confused, angry, pissed off, rejected and been baffled in how to relate to women and other men. After spending those few days with the amazing facilitators and the other men, I am now a new man who is full of life, power, love and understanding. I am moving forward as a much happier person and I encourage you to take a risk and be brave enough to change. You will become the man you deserve to be.

Anon, 58, Melbourne

Thank you for a very practical and memorable workshop. I am slowly including the new practices into my daily routine, and seeing changes within myself and in my life. I am surprised how a slight change in perspective, is making such big quantum changes in my life . . . Looking forward to attending any future men’s workshops that you are running. 

Cass, 38, Sydney

"For starters the facilitators are revolutionaries and have developed a 3 day program that is completely all encompassing and always relevant to a man of our time.Each practice throughout each day develops mind soul and body inclusively.So interesting, so challenging, so exhausting, so supported and enlightening.The venue and the food are organically divine.The women facilitators will blow your mind with their bravery, knowledge, insights and reverence.You will share this life significant experience with 15 other men whose courage and support you will always respect , and a bond that sticks due to the amount you inspire each other.This is my true experience and I have never felt so appreciated in my life.Do it." 

Wayne, 34, Melbourne

My husband Brett attended the Men's Retreat, he wanted to go but was a little sceptical. WOW, what an amazing transformation for us. We now have a new love, bond, connection and amazing energy after 9 years of marriage. I have fallen in love with my husband all over again. His touch is electric and his whole being is different in such an unexplainable way. We always thought we had a good marriage and now it's just more than we ever expected and everything in our lives has become magical.

Christie (wife of men's retreat participant), Melbourne

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