Loving Each Other Through Touch

One of the greatest joys I have experienced via Tantric Bodywork sessions is that people feel love through simple conscious touch. It's not a doing practice, it's not busy, it's not about forcing things to happen. I remember many moments in sessions when I was sitting...

2016: Choosing Stability in a Year of Uncertainty

2016 was a mixed year for me – not as challenging as 2014, but with some twisty surprises. From the beginning of the year, I was challenged on low bookings for events, feeling the effects of a diminished friendship circle, continuing family conflicts and questioning...

Teaching People to Love

Over the course of a few conversations recently, I really landed in the feeling and depth of this. What we are doing at Tantric Blossoming is teaching people to love. Really and truly love. Not the romantic version, not the fluffy version. But to really love. To learn...

What Masculinity Means to Me

By Tim HopkinsFor many years of my adult life I struggled with the concept of masculinity, with the values, traits and ideas around what it means to be a man. I guess I rejected the mainstream idea of how a man should be, as tough, controlling, and unemotional, and I...

Hug with Heart – Helen Zee

 Helen Zee was one of many who attended Tantric Nights. She first walked in the room a little over 4 years ago. However, she set herself apart by phoning me a day or two later. She asked me that all important question, "What next?" I knew this was someone who was up...

Mentoring and Friendship – Katie McMurray

Unusual relationships, including friendships, colour my life. Lucky, I have never been too attached to conventionality. Katie McMurray is a dear friend who falls into the unusual friendship category.  Because she is also my mentor and I am her mentor. I know many...

Claiming Hurt Feelings

As children, many are raised to be nice and keep a smile on their face. We’re not taught to express true feelings. In fact, they are often forbidden. But each time feelings are suppressed along the way; a new layer of struggle and disempowerment is added.Claiming hurt...

Alchemy For Your Life

Tantric Alchemy Training is for those who truly desire to live and express their full potential. Alchemy is the process of turning lead into gold. The training will help you to transform the leaden parts of your life into golden aspects of...

Don’t Quit Your Day Job!

"Don't quit your day job!" It was 2002, and, in the eyes of many, I was walking away from the ideal future. I was working as a Financial Controller for a successful company in London that had offered me sponsorship.It was a very lucrative position, which offered...

Tantric Nights, My Teacher!

From the very first night, the event sparkled and had a rich life of its own. It was bigger than me, it called forth a sense of community, and people were magnetised to love and nurture it in a variety of ways. Tantric Nights gave much to me and to everyone who...

One Last Dance!

Sadly, after almost 8 years Tantric Nights is coming to an end; it is time for one last dance. This has not been an easy decision to make. There have been many personal, business and community factors to consider.Personally, my heart feels called to offer my gifts in...

Loving Yourself In All The Right Ways

Loving yourself in all the right ways will change your life beyond your wildest imaginings. Self-love is immensely powerful and an experience that needs to be lived and embodied to be truly understood. It is the gift of intimacy with you.Self-love is to know and...